{"id":180,"date":"2023-12-24T17:32:26","date_gmt":"2023-12-24T17:32:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tonydle.com\/?p=180"},"modified":"2023-12-24T17:32:26","modified_gmt":"2023-12-24T17:32:26","slug":"when-life-gets-tough","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tonydle.com\/?p=180","title":{"rendered":"When Life Gets Tough"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When life gets tough..<br><br>The mind gets like a wild horse.<br><br>A bronco bucking across the field knocking off its rider.<br><br>Thoughts kicking in from all angles.<br><br>You&#8217;re &#8220;thrown for a loop&#8221; as the saying goes.<br><br>A ride with endless spirals and topsy turvy turns.<br><br>If this happens and you&#8217;re at work, how could you possibly be productive?<br><br>Make important decisions?<br><br>Lead people?<br><br>There&#8217;s no way to do that effectively in this state.<br><br>So what&#8217;s the solution? You need to tame the horse.<br><br>That&#8217;s where meditation comes in.<br><br>Try this the next time you&#8217;re mind goes wild:<br><br>1. Give yourself some space to cool down and not make any rash decisions.<br>2. Do something physical for a few minutes to exert the energy built up inside. ex) Running, jumping up and down, dancing<br>3. Slow down and go inwards. Breathe.<br>4. Observe what&#8217;s happening in the body. Get curious.<br>5. Write your thoughts down on paper. Yes, physically writing it! (The beauty is that it&#8217;s tangible)<br><br>Once done, see how you feel. Has your state changed at all?<br><br>Finding ways to &#8220;tame the horse&#8221; keeps you from doing something you&#8217;ll regret.<br><br>And reduces the unnecessary stress of getting bucked off the bronco time and time again.<br><br>Let me know how it goes \ud83d\ude4c\ud83c\udffc<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When life gets tough.. The mind gets like a wild horse. A bronco bucking across the field knocking off its rider. Thoughts kicking in from all angles. You&#8217;re &#8220;thrown for a loop&#8221; as the saying goes. A ride with endless spirals and topsy turvy turns. If this happens and you&#8217;re at work, how could you [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-180","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-uncategorized","entry"],"featured_image_src":null,"featured_image_src_square":null,"author_info":{"display_name":"Tony Le","author_link":"https:\/\/tonydle.com\/?author=3"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tonydle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/180","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tonydle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tonydle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tonydle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tonydle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=180"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/tonydle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/180\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tonydle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=180"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tonydle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=180"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tonydle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=180"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}